The first night you so dreamed about. How it is actually.

We are very serious about girls’ sexual problems, talk about their first nights, give advices and condemn the guys who are treated them bad and left them. But is that easy to be a guy? Not really. Their way towards their first night isn’t full of flowers either. This is what we’re going to discuss. If somebody thinks it’s shocking, then we can assure that this is how it happens. Even if we pretend, that it’s not so. First night – one night stand. Study says that most of the men have...

When to start sexual relationships?

First night not always happens when guy is ready and wants it. It can happen whatever age. Their pluses and minuses have both – early and late beginning of sexual relationships. If boy is very young he might not be mentally ready for it (during masturbation he has built for himself a perfect image though his first real contact might not be close to perfect and might bring him disappointment and unpleasant feelings). Young boys seldom think how to protect from STD or his girlfriend from pre...

First night not without problems

For girls first night brings fewer difficulties than boys, mentally and physically it’s easier for them to accept their body. Boys are much more shy and with complexes. They’re worried about what to do and how and often experience premature ejaculation or lack of erection because of that. Often then erection ends there’s a situation when both are ready for their first intercourse, but guys “little friend” goes “asleep”. Guy is ashamed of that; inferiority complex about his manhood ...

When you need it very, very badly

Usually boys start to masturbate when they first hit the puberty, around age 9-11. One third of boys start to masturbate after their first kiss. By the way, study shows that in average for girls, gap between first kiss and first sex is approximately half a year but for boys – a year. At teen-age boys are very easily sexually excited, so they often have a need to be sexually satisfied, to ejaculate. Girls don’t have such an urgent need. That’s why the there’s a situation when boy is apply...

Sex and alcohol

First contact often happens during intoxication with alcohol or other substances (like weed, etc). For some it might sound ok – there’s no stress and psychological problems. With the effect of alcohol all walls come down, sexual drive increases and you can have sex whatever place. And if this “drive” is enforced by certain company where everyone is bragging with “experience”… Often in such companies girls loose their strength of resistance and games with undressing might end up wit...

First sex, advices for professionals and amateurs

First kiss – such thrilling and exciting feelings! Warmth is going though all the body from toes till very ends of the hair. Smile on your face stays there for at least a week. Remembering the first kiss your heart trembles already a long time since it…and feels like you’ve suddenly grown up. Parents probably suspect something because mom looked at me archly. But maybe they don’t… After first kiss we start to think about possibility of first sexual contact Of course we also don’t hav...

Puberty for boys

When boy is growing and developing while turning into adult, there many changes take place in his body and show up things with which he never had to interact with before. This may create various discomfort feelings and situations for him which usually are based on lack of knowledge and information. Changes, connected to puberty, usually start at age of 10 – 12. Some may have it earlier, some later, but it definitely should start by the age of 15. Development and maturation of man’s body can ...

Stages of boy puberty – Pre-puberty period

Starts from birth till beginning of puberty (9-13 y. o.) - During pre-puberty period identification of child’s gender takes place; - Period of “platonic love”; - Practically all children in this age play “doctors”; - When boys are born and up to age 3, foreskin can’t be pulled off from head of the penis; - Testicles have to slide down in scrotum; - During pre-puberty penis and testicles doesn’t change significantly. After age 3, there should be paid more attention to boy’s foresk...

First Puberty Period

Usually begins at age 9-13 - Testicles start to grow faster; - Scrotum becomes more like “a sack” un drops lower; - Penis increases in length and width a little bit; - The structure of scrotum skin changes a little bit, it’s possible to feel it on touch; - Straight, soft hair start to grow in the area above penis; - Sweating becomes more intensive; - Body growth becomes faster; - Smegma begins to form under foreskin. The main attention should be turned to the fact whether both testicles ha...

Second Period of Puberty

This period begins at age 12-16 - Sharply might increase height and weight; - Penis continue to grow and enlarge; - Skin of the penis becomes darker or more red; - Testicles continue developing, therefore they also become bigger; - Hair around genitals get thicker and darker; - Hair starts to grow on a penis and scrotum. Some boys during this period have their chest turn more sensitive and harder, they might also swell a little bit – it’s normal and you shouldn’t worry about it, in average...